And we notice when you’re not actually listening and just trying to make, you know, appropriate listening noises. Are you just looking for sex and not an actual relationship? Do you really just want a FWB (friends with benefits) arrangement?
(I do realize that this doesn’t apply to all men, and I’ve excluded several I know personally from this list.). And we’re viewing the dick pic we get sent on first acquaintance with an eye roll (or a chuckle, depending) before deleting and blocking that number. And most of you are still sitting up in your hospital bed tapping away at your phone, on social media, chatting with your friends. Gradually, this mysterious boy who I hadn’t met before (despite my having been at our small university for a year at this point, and despite this boy knowing We bonded over our mutual love of writing, our equally-dark humor, and the way we both had a long list of ex-partners with funny anecdotes.Eventually, after he got me a job at the bar where he worked, we began spending more and more time together.I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.