That in mind, here come the three secret “tests” that every woman uses (even if she doesn’t realize it) to determine whether you are boyfriend material: Test #1: Are You Present?
When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.
Naturally, a man doesn’t need to show them all to get the attention of a great woman…but if he manages to show her just a few, chances drastically increase that she’ll start “feeling it” for him.
1) An “Easy-Going” Attitude Listen…“easy-going” does not mean being so laid back when you first meet a woman that you’re practically asleep.
As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.
About 99% of guys think that being “thoughtful” is about telling a woman how pretty she is, or buying her flowers, gifts or lavishing attention on her at obvious moments.
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The best way to ask a girl out is to just ask her in a completely natural way.
A “yes” won’t always be guaranteed in the process, because there are there are several factors that affect the girl’s decision.
During this period, De Angelo went by the on-line nickname "Sisonpyh" Finally switching to the handle "David De Angelo" in 2001, he released an updated, expanded, and somewhat more politically-correct version of the post as the ebook Double Your Dating, at the time the sole product of the eponymous company he ran by himself from the bedroom of his oceanside apartment in San Diego.
Since then, De Angelo has released many products aimed at helping men with dating, with titles such as the Advanced Dating series, 77 Laws of Success With Women and Dating, Deep Inner Game, and Meeting Women Online.